Thursday, February 11, 2010
Thinking Outside The Birdcage
So when my mother-in-law gave us a book on raising creative children a couple of Christmases ago, I thought it would be full of great tips. I found it the other day and started reading about this interesting activity called "The Pretend Game".
In this game, you ask your child to close her eyes and imagine a bird cage. You ask questions about the birdcage (is it large, small, etc.) Then you ask her to imagine the bird and ask similar questions about the bird. Eventually, you get them to imagine the bird growing large enough for them to take a ride on it and you ask them questions about what they are seeing and where they are going, etc.
I decided to try this with Bella thinking I would get some great answers since she is always pretending anyway. Here's how the game started:
Me: Butterfly, let's play a pretend game. Close your eyes and imagine a bird cage. Do you see it?
B: Yes.
Me: Is it little or big?
B: It's big!
Me: Do you see a bird inside there?
B: No. The BIRD is in the doghouse. There is a DOG inside the birdcage.
Me: Oh?
Not in the book.
Not in the box.
Not in the birdcage.
Tuesday, February 02, 2010
Facebook Friends
"Butterfly, could you please put on some pants or a skirt? Tyler is coming over for a guitar lesson and you need to get dressed. It's not very polite to show strangers your panties. They are private."
She leaned over, cupped her mouth with one hand like she was telling me a secret and whispered conspiratorially.
"But he's a Facebook Friend."
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Obeyment
B: Mommy, the baby Bunny always obeys the Mama Bunny. It's called obeyment.
Me: Wow, that's a great made-up word, ButterflyB.
B: I didn't make it up.
Me: Where did you learn it?
B: I learned it from myself. It's not like a mint that you eat. It's like agreement or _____.
(It was some other word ending in 'ment' -- like agreement -- that perfectly fit, but since I apparently gave all my cognitive abilities to her, I forgot it.)*
Me: Oh, I understand.
Daddy (upon hearing the story): Maybe she won't need school.
*UPDATE: I asked Rob what the other 'ment' word was, and it was compliment. (He didn't have to give his brain away to make hers....)
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
A Book Lover's Paradise
On our quick trip to Rob's grandmother's house last weekend, we had a chance to go through his late grandfather's extensive and dusty library and take home whatever books we wanted. It was magnificently fun.
A little background: Mr. H -- actually Lt. Colonel (retired) H -- was an officer in Army intelligence during the Cold War and learned Chinese and Russian. He also served in India, Burma and Algiers in World War II, as well as Korea (after that war). The family lived in many exotic places during his career, including Okinawa, Thailand and Germany. Needless to say, his library was fascinating and diverse.
Here are the books we brought back with us. The majority of them are very, very old. (I included some very fun chapter titles for a couple of them.)
BOOKS FROM THE GRANDFATHER'S LIBRARY
The Song Of Hiawatha (two copies - an extremely old one and an even older leather bound one)
American Poetry (1671-1928)
The Year Out Of Doors
The Boat United And Other Poems, a translation of Tang poems in wood with original poems in Chinese Calligraphy (this book has some incredible artwork in it. I'll have to scan some.)
Joseph Wood Krutch Herbal
Driving To Biloxi (poems by Edgar Simmons)
Scribner Magazine, Winter 1996
Ducks At A Distance, a waterfowl identification guide (small booklet)
Guide To Spirits and Liqueurs
Riley Songs Of Home (by James Whitcomb Riley)
Ginseng And Other Medicinal Plants
Translations From The ChineseT(by Arthur Waley)
Heidi (children's picture book version)
The S.D.N Theory Of Music Rudiments
Webster's New World Vest Pocket Dictionary (so tiny & cute)
The Grapes of Wrath (by John Steinbeck)
Nicholas And Alexandra (by Robert K Massie)
Marie Antoinette, The Journey (by Antonia Fraser)
In Dubious Battle (by John Steinbeck)
The Six Wives Of Henry VIII (by Alison Weir)
An Introduction To Bird Life For Bird Watchers (by Aretas A Saunders)
Volumes II, III and IV of The Harbrace History Of England
Pigeon Flight (by Mary Stolz) - a juvenile fiction book
The Boy's Book Of New Inventions (Harry E Maule) -- check out the chapter titles
The Aeroplane
Artificial Lighting Made And Harnessed To Man's Use
The Motion Picture Machine
The Tesla Turbine
The Romance of Concrete
The Wireless Telegraph Up To The Minute (What would they think of Twitter??)
Steel Boiled Like Water And Cut Like Paper
New Engines Of War (aeroplanes, balloons, submarines)
Les Miserables (by Victor Hugo)
American Boy Adventure Stories
Foxfire 4 (includes fiddle making, springhouses, sassafras tea, etc.)
Basic Russian Book 2 (we got book one last time)
A Practical Guide For The Beginning Farmer
Haji Of The Elephants
The American Boys Handy Book (chapters below)
Novel Modes of FishingTracks And Tracking (by Josef Brunner)
How To Camp Out Without A Tent
Home-Made Boats
Knots, Bends, and Hitches
Practical Taxidermy For Boys
Snowball Warfare
How To Make Various And Divers Whirligigs
Count Of Monte Cristo, Illustrated (by Alexander Dumas)
World Enough And Time (by Robert Penn Warren)
A Connecticut Yankee In King Arthur's Court (by Mark Twain)
The Tale Of Mr. Tod (by Beatrix Potter)
The Pilgrim's Progress (by John Bunyan)
A Wrinkle In Time & A Swiftly Tilting Planet (by Madeleine L'Engle)
Hamlet (very small & cute book)
Modern American Poetry (copyright 1921)
Poetry Of The People: Ballads, Lays of Heroism, And National Songs
How To Live On Nothing (by Joan Ranson Shortney)
The Stranger (by Albert Camus)
Flowers, a Guide To Familiar American Wildflowers
Clocks And Watches
Unfortunately, we had to leave hundreds and hundreds more behind. He had so very many about World War II, including official Army booklets analyzing the battle strategies on the different fronts during the war. It was amazing.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
A List Of Thoughts
(Topic borrowed from The Simple Woman's Daybook via Walk Slowly, Live Wildly.)
Thursday, July 09, 2009
Those Crazy Words
Butterfly hates getting her hair washed.
In retrospect, I regret being so careful with water when she was a baby, never letting it get in her face and eyes. I thought I was being kind because I don't particularly like water in my own face, but I realize now that I missed my opportunity to desensitize her to it. Now she hates the thought of a single drop getting near her face, which will be a huge problem when she takes swim lessons.
Sometimes when her hair gets dirty, I will just put it up in braided buns (aka Bear Ears) and put off the drama another day. She has started using this as a negotiating technique.
This conversation occurred a few weeks ago, and I just came across my written record of it.
Mommy: We are going to wash your hair today.
Butterfly: I just want to have bear ears.
Mommy: No, your hair is very very dirty and we have to wash it.
Butterfly: I am going to be very unhappy if you wash my hair.
Mommy: You shouldn't say that. You should say, "I am going to be so happy because we are washing my hair, and my hair will be silky and clean."
Butterfly: I'm just going to leave because you are saying those crazy words to me.
Tuesday, February 03, 2009
For Daddy, On His Valentine Birthday
Monday, February 02, 2009
The Anthem Of My Fierce Heart

Monday, August 18, 2008
In Which The Mommy Is Rendered Speechless
We seem to be in a parenting stage in which Butterfly does not see the need to do what Mommy and Daddy say. We have been discussing obedience for quite a while. Since she is so verbal for her age and sounds much older than she actually is, it is sometimes difficult to know how much to expect from her. After all, she won't be three until the end of next month.Wednesday, August 06, 2008
To Sing of Brightness and Beauty, Part II

Her smile was kind, not so much her smile as the lips themselves. They were vital seperate lips, which seemed about to flutter from her face like a lark into the sky. They were made, as all lips are, for kissing, yet they had other more important work to do: to sing of brightness and beauty.Everyone should read that book and really anything else by Solzhenitsyn. As you can see from the paragraph above, he has a lovely way with words. I am trying to read more of his work, but he wrote so accurately about the oppression in the Soviet Union that much of his work is very, very sad and disturbing (though Cancer Ward is, surprisingly, not so sad and kind of funny at times).
For his trouble and talents, he was arrested many times, tossed into the gulag (prison camp) and was eventually exiled to Kazakhstan. He also won an Nobel prize for literature, which may have saved his life. It brought him and his work so much attention from the outside world that the Soviets couldn't really kill him without a big uproar. He eventually left (escaped?) the USSR, and he now lives in Vermont. For a brief biography of this remarkable author and man, go here.
Also, if you are an artistic person, you MUST read his Nobel prize acceptance speech located here. Wow.
Now read his books! You can start with A Day In The Life Of Ivan Denisovich; it's really short and covers one day in the life of a gulag prisoner. Then be sure and read Cancer Ward. (By the way, the author also had a bout with cancer when he was in exile and spent time in a soviet cancer ward. And we think our lives are hard...) For some really sad but true non-fiction, you can read The Gulag Archipelago about life in the former Soviet Union.
Thank you, Mr. Solzhenitsyn, for believing in a better world than the one you saw around you and for persevering to show us that art really can change things. May the rest of your life be peaceful, and may you see as many days of joy as you did sorrow.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
A Foray Into Fiction
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
The Miniature Maxi-Dress

Saturday, July 19, 2008
I Want A Tutu, Too

Friday, July 18, 2008
The Sewing Elves
This is what the elves taught me to do: I used the existing hems on everything. I also used the zig-zag stitch on my machine (that I had never noticed before) to make the button holes. I could not figure out how to put the button hole maker onto my machine, much less how to work it. If you look carefully at this picture, you can tell these are my first buttonholes! Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Because I Said So
I promised myself I would not employ that phrase in my maternal vocabulary. I told my naivety it is only fair to a child to give her a good reason for whatever you were wanting her to do. I assumed it would only take a little imagination and creativity to come up with sufficient answers to the inevitable challenges to my authority.Tuesday, June 10, 2008
A Beach Butterfly
Monday, April 14, 2008
Thank You, Encyclopedia Brown
I decided to look to a few experts for a solution. What would Sherlock Holmes, Guy Noir, Nancy Drew, Jupiter Jones, Trixie Belden and Encyclopedia Brown do in a case like this? Follow the clues, of course.
Like any good private eye, I set my trap and staked out the scene. Voila! I procured photographic evidence of a little-known creature rumored to be completely imaginary: The Breakfast Elf.
And now, ladies and gentlemen, I present to you irrefutable proof that she exists:

Don't be surprised if you hear about this ground-breaking discovery on NPR. If I don't return your calls in the next few days, it's probably because I am busy with interviews. Or because my phone reception at my house is non-existent. One of those.
Friday, April 11, 2008
A Love Sonnet
Though rare, some things I've found improve with timeIsn't he awesome?
And though these can range from the finest wines
To a truly great pair of leather boots
To a Shakespearian sonnet, the truth
Found at their core, distilled by time's warring
Factions: a golden heart of Quality
Whose luster is only evidenced the
More through every passing year's abrading.
And as a poem can newly strike the heart
Each year it's read, or music find anew
Some hidden treasure, all our sacred art
Seeks that eternal, upward sloping view.
And now, my clearer eyes begin to see
The beauty our togetherness will be.
Wednesday, April 09, 2008
The Green Allergy Cure
Have I mentioned that after a lifetime of suffering, my husband is no longer allergic to Spring? And maybe even dogs? Here is the marvelous story:



